Kinks and Fetishes (Part 3)
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This is the third and last post in this series, discussing all kinks and fetishes that I know about. I'm glad I got into this exercise, because it let me think about each and every kink and examine how I feel about it. After all, every kink is an opportunity for more fun.
Pup play requires taking on a different role. I'm not into that because I don't really like role play. I'm not looking to act. I get that it serves to remove inhibitions, perhaps be a little more wild, or lose control, maybe even lose the ability to use your fingers if they're in paw gloves. Being on a leash might be the only part that could excite me about it, as it exhibits my role as a sub to everyone. I'm already required to wear my dog tag to identify me as my Master's slave. I don't want to lose my humanity, though I can acknowledge that the pup mask has another benefit, giving you the protection of anonymity. But I'm not into pup play, other than the potential degradation and loss of agency, as a pup is usually not really allowed to speak, only bark or growl to express enthusiasm, approval or disapproval. But I want to be treated as an adult person. So for the same reason, I'm also not into being treated as an infant, including the diaper fetish, known as ABDL, which stands for Adult Baby / Diaper Lover.
Often I've observed pups connected with the leather fetish, whether they or their handlers are wearing it. I guess guys like the look of it, perhaps projecting masculinity, or maybe they like the feeling on the skin. Though I think lycra, latex or rubber satisfy that need for a tight second skin even more, as they're so tight. On muscular guys they can look especially hot, though they can also be very hot inside and I don't like to sweat so much. However, I love seeing tight biceps, pecs and bulges in lycra. And since I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, maybe that's something I should try out too sometime.