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How to Handle Financial Domination (Part 4)

Putting It into Practice

House Slave Fag

24 May 2025 • 6 min read

House Slave Fag hands money to Master GingerDom.

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Caution: While I attempt to offer in this post advice on how to protect yourself from FinDom, this is NOT professional advice. If you are addicted to FinDom (e.g., can't go a month without sending or you're compromising money that should go to your dependents), please seek help from a mental health professional.

Whenever exploring the topic of financial domination (or findom in short) I recommend starting from my foundational three posts. You can listen to them on the podcast for free (e.g. on Apple or Spotify), or paid subscribers can also read them here.

This post is a part of a series:

“How to Handle Financial Domination”

Part 1: How I Slipped

Part 2: Strategies for Protecting Yourself

Part 3: How to Spiral All the Way (If You Want)

Part 4: Putting It into Practice

I had an interesting experience today with my first formal consultation with a finsub. I've written several posts on the topic of financial domination and in the past few weeks I discussed how a finsub can protect himself from spiraling, or alternatively, let himself spiral further. So I figured that I could also put it into practice with one-on-one consultations.

I tweeted the following:

DM for this sub’s free, unprofessional counsel on #findom.
Just answer 3 questions:
1. How much have you sent?
2. [Are you] Trying to quit — or go deeper?
3. Will you never send money meant for your dependents?

When a finsub sent me a message and we got into his issues, I surprised myself by how much I was able to help him, though it remains to be proven if he is a good boi and can stick to his new goals. I told him he should check in with me after his next paycheck at the end of the month, if he wants my support in holding him to account.